I got 4 referrals in under 60 seconds from someone who said NO to my Home Based MLM Business Opportunity today. 

No joke.  Now that might not seem like a lot…but what if you got 5, 10, 20 NOs a day…times 4… 

Could you build a business with 20-80 referrals (read: LEADS) a day for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity?

If the answer was no, or you hesitated, then your problem in building your business is definitely not leads (please read some of my posts on Mindset). 

If  you answered a resounding YES!, then you deserve this AWESOME tip I got from an amazing Networker friend of mine Casey Eberhart.

Like many of you, I was having problems getting referrals.  I always asked and would always get “let me think about it and if anyone comes to mind, i’ll let you know”…or stuff like that.  It was driving me crazy.  I tried so many approaches that I learned from some great coaches in our industry, but this one, hands down WORKS…

Watch this video and try it…I bet you’ll start getting tons of referrals…But you have to ASK! 

Watch this and learn how stupid-simple this is to get referrals for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity.

Oh, and hey, if you like it, make my day and comment, share on Facebook or Retweet 

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You DESERVE Success!

P.S. THIS is the Home Based MLM Business Opportunity that I get effortless referrals for — If you want to live see why people who look suddenly start making space in their safe deposit boxes, CLICK HERE.

SEX –  Now that I have your attention — What does sex have to do with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity?  A Lot.  Let’s break this down.

Your relationship with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity is like a relationship. 

Phase One:   

Relationship. 
You just started out with your new lover.  You are hot for them.  You talk about them all the time.  You tell all your friends about them.  You get hot just thinking about them.  You get excited by the phone calls. You can’t wait to get your hands on them and spend as much time with them as you can.  And when you do…POW!  It’s good.  You start imagining your long and happy future with them ….and now you get even hotter.  This is good. 

Business. 
You are hot for it.  You watch a presentation for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and a spark is lit.  You flirt a little… and then you’re in.  You talk about it all the time.  You tell all your friends about your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity.  You get excited just thinking about it.  Your autoship comes in the mail and you rip it open and start exploring it.  POW!  This stuff is good.  You get excited when the phone rings.   You start imagining your future in your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and seeing yourself walking down the aisle and up onto the stage as a speaker at a big Home Based MLM Business Opportunity event…and now you get even hotter.  This is good. 

Are you with me so far?

This is the exciting stage.  You are on FIRE.  You can’t get enough of  your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity .  It feels great to be alive!  Your future is set.  You have your solution….  Your new life.  You are on your way!

WARNING:  Here’s where most people take a GIANT WRONG TURN and many quit their Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and never see the future they just got hot and bothered dreaming about….

Phase Two:
 (Successful Version)

Your Relationship. 
The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion has transformed into a slow burn.  There’s love and commitment there.  You still want to be with them all the time, you can’t imagine your future without them, but the ups and downs have settled into a feeling of consistency…with passion, but in an easy and comfortable way…Life is good.

Your Business. 
The super hot passion for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity has transformed into a slow burn.  There’s love and commitment there.  Your lows are high, your highs are low.  You are consistent.  You still see your future with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity, still passionate…. it just feels more settled and comfortable.  Life is good.

OR

Phase Two:
 (UNSuccessful  Version)

Your Relationship. The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion has transformed into a slow burn.  Fear and panic take over…where is the burning, smack-in-the-face passion?  Where is that adrenaline?  Why aren’t we having those 9 ½ Weeks scenes anymore?  How do I get it back?  You keep trying to get back something that’s not there anymore.  Your commitment wanes.  Without the heat, you lose interest and break up.  Next.

Your Business. 
The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity has transformed into a slow burn.  Fear and panic set in…where is the passion? Where is that adrenaline?  Why am I not running to the mailbox to rip open my autoship with wild abandon anymore?  How do I get it back?  You read your training materials, have staring contests with your phone….all trying to get back something that’s not there anymore.  Your commitment wanes.  You tell yourself a lie (“This doesn’t work”) and you quit. 

What’s my point?

It’s OKAY if your hot burning flaming passion turns into a slow, warm, comfortable burn.  In fact, it’s normal.  Stop chasing your tail trying to get back into the honeymoon and start accepting the deepened, long-term relationship with your awesome Home Based MLM Business Opportunity.  Understand that THIS IS WHAT COMMITMENT FEELS LIKE.  It’s a good thing. 

Whether in relationships or in business, nobody can sustain that intense, adrenaline rush of the honeymoon phase.  You aren’t meant to.  In fact, it’s not healthy.  It’s a sure-fire road to burn-out city.

 A true professional has a real vision of living the long-term dream life that’s possible in your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity… That is, if you MADE A COMMITEMENT to it and vowed to persist until you succeed, and are willing to build it long and slow. 

Get out of the “love ‘em and leave ‘em mentality and get in a healthy relationship for the long haul with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity

 You DESERVE Success!

 P.S.  THIS is the Home Based MLM Business Opportunity that I married – If you want to live happily ever after with us, CLICK HERE.

Can you have success with MLM if you’re always screwing up on the phone? 

Absolutely!  In fact, I’d say you’ll have more success in MLM if you’re constantly screwing up on the phone.  Here’s why.  YOU’RE ON THE PHONE!  Being on the phone with prospects is how we make money in MLM.  Actually, the two money-making actitivities for success with MLM are RETAILING and RECRUITING.  As long as you’re on the phone doing one of those two things, you’re guaranteed success with MLM.

Now at this point, you may be thinking: 

Yeah, Amy, but you said you’d have success with MLM if you’re SCREWING UP on the phone. 

How is that possible?”  Good question.  I’ll tell you how.  Actually, I’ll tell you what inspired this post.   It was my prospect, Dr. Jekyll or was it Mr. Hyde!?

This morning, I rolled out of bed, sneezing and stuffy — head cold…and I looked at my clock and realized I had scheduled a follow up with a prospect.  I had spoken to this gentleman 2 days prior.  Someone I’d met at a networking function months ago. 

Backtracking….Two days ago, I decided that if I truly wanted success with MLM, I’d better get out of my comfort zone and do something different.  So I whipped out the enormous stack of business cards I’ve been accumulating from various functions and got to work calling.   I had a great chat with this prospect, who was warm and kind, and extremely open to making extra money and totally intrigued by my primary network marketing company (Dr. Jekyll) and he agreed to watch a presentation!  (FYI, this whole conversation was about 5ish minutes long. )

Well, when I picked up the phone to call him this morning at our schedule time, that warm, sweet lovely man (Dr. Jekyll) was replaced with a rushed , belligerent, unhappy man who absolulely challenged me at every turn (Mr. Hyde).   He was argumentative, agressive and had attitude for days.  A prospect monster!

Well now, I’ve sponsored plenty of people into my primary business over the past year and change, so I’m pretty comfortable dealing with all different types  — even prospect monsters.  But today, I was off my game.  I was not well, I was tired, I was off guard and I screwed up this call.   Needless to say, he did not sign up.  LOL.

Why am I telling you this?  Here’s why:

If you want success with MLM you must, must, must remember these 3 things:

 If you’re getting a lot of prospect monsters (aka jerks) like this on the phone, congratulations…because it’s a numbers game and if you’re getting A LOT of jerks, then you are on the phone A LOT.  Which means you’re getting a lot of jerks, a lot of uninterested nice people, and your share of open, interested people with whom you are creating relationships ….and you are sponsoring A LOT!…

 You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person.  Cedrick Harris taught me that when I first started.  So true.  No matter how much I screwed up my end of the conversation, if he wanted to come in the business, my screw up wouldn’t stop him. 

Who cares!  If you care, then you were too attached to your prospect and that means you don’t have enough leads and you are living in lack.  Ray Higdon taught me that everyone who has success with MLM is either living in lack or abundance.  If one idiot prospect sends you into a tail spin, you’re living in lack mentality.  If you have the ability to shrug it off and move on, then you are living in abudance and you know that there’s millions of people out there waiting for you to call them with your opportunity.   So…NEXT!

Why you should care about this:

I’m sharing this with you because I want you to recognize that even MLM Leaders screw up from time to time.  We’re human.  But we shrug it off, have a laugh and move on and that’s why we have success with MLM.   If you have a sincere, burning desire for that success (you deserve it!), pick up that 800 pound phone often, and practice the art of the shrug off when you encounter a prospect monster, have a laugh and move on!  Next!

You DESERVE Success!

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You can’t succeed in Network Marketing….Network Marketing doesn’t work.  LOL.  That’s funny.  Of course it works, but so many people get started and then quit with that mentality.  Did you ever notice that?

I bet you’ve noticed that some people join your team and then quit, right?  Sometimes within a week, sometimes a month, somtimes months later…but a lot of ‘em quit.  Let’s face it, you’d have to be deaf, dumb and blind in this industry to not have seen attrition in action. 

Well, recently I attended a live event where I got to hear one of my mentors, Jerry Clark, speak.  Jerry has built multi-million dollar organizations in network marketing and now is one of the most respected (and hilariously funny!) trainers in the biz.   I made sure to corner Jerry and grill him on this subject because I really believe that understanding this is key to succeed in Network Marketing.

Listen to what an expert says …(Oh yeah, Jerry gave 2 fantastic tips but there was so much value there I had to break it up into 2 videos…Look out for part 2 tomorrow.

You DESERVE Success!

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You DESERVE Success!

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…Well, nothing…on the surface.  However, I was home sick the other day…no strength for anything other than laying around in bed and watching movies.  I flipped on “Rocky”.  It’s been a long time since I watched it.  But, no matter how dated certain things are about that film, the message is still the same: Stop at nothing until you achieve your goal.  Become the winner you already know you are inside and no matter what happens, you must get there.

In watching this I had forgotten a key moment that changed his journey (hey, it’s been a long time since I watched it).  When he is first offered the opportunity to fight for the championship, he turns it down.  He says no.  No to a shot at the title.!! Isn’t that what people do every day when they pass by an opportunity at achieving wealth when they say no to your network marketing business?  But here’s the difference, Rocky quickly realized that he had his shot.  And one this big might never come again.  And, like those of us to made a commitment to change our lives with Network Markeitng, he took it. 

That’s us in that boxing ring.  We’re Rocky.  We’re the ones who saw a shot at the title and took it.  We’re the ones who have the chance to achieve everything we desire because we recognized an opportunity and took it!  We ARE Rocky.

This was made even clearer as I watched Rocky get his face bashed in over and over and over again.  At one point during the final world championship fight, after many, many brutal rounds of fighting, he falls.  His own manager is telling him to stay down.  But Rocky, the true winner that he is, scrapes up every ounce of strength he can to pull himself up on the ropes and go back for more.  Inspiring.

Well, inspiring to me…and to anyone else like us who knows they are a winner, a leader inside.  But interesting how the person outside the ring who cares about Rocky very much, told him to quit.  Sure, it was well-meaning, but does that seem at all familiar to you?

Doesn’t this mirror the experience we sometimes have as Network Marketers.  Don’t people outside of our “ring” see us struggling and with all the best intentions, encourage us to quit.  And guess what, 95% of you will  95% of you reading this article right now, will quit when it gets difficult.  95% of you will miss out on the wealth and freedom that Network Marketing has to offer because you quit when it got tough.  And that’s a shame.

Here’s what you need to understand in order to truly achieve success in our business (or ANY business).  It can get tough sometimes.  Challenges happen.  People sign up and quit.  People swear they’ll show up to a meeting and don’t come.  People swear they’ll watch a presentation and never do it.  Stuff happens.  Who cares….

…Because you have a choice.  You can quit when it gets hard and say “this doesn’t work”. …or you can be Rocky.  Pick your sweat-soaked, battered body up off the ring floor, grab onto those ropes and pull yourself up and get back in the G-A-M-E. 

And soon it will be you running up to the top of the Philadelphia steps and dancing around with that great music playing.

You DESERVE Success!

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You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access

You DESERVE Success!

P.S. If Your Upline Does Not Have a Step-By-Step Blueprint For Success, Check This Out (Unless You Already Have Too Many Leads – Click Here For Instant Access