SEX – Now that I have your attention — What does sex have to do with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity? A Lot. Let’s break this down.
Your relationship with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity is like a relationship.
Phase One: 
Relationship.
You just started out with your new lover. You are hot for them. You talk about them all the time. You tell all your friends about them. You get hot just thinking about them. You get excited by the phone calls. You can’t wait to get your hands on them and spend as much time with them as you can. And when you do…POW! It’s good. You start imagining your long and happy future with them ….and now you get even hotter. This is good.
Business.
You are hot for it. You watch a presentation for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and a spark is lit. You flirt a little… and then you’re in. You talk about it all the time. You tell all your friends about your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity. You get excited just thinking about it. Your autoship comes in the mail and you rip it open and start exploring it. POW! This stuff is good. You get excited when the phone rings. You start imagining your future in your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and seeing yourself walking down the aisle and up onto the stage as a speaker at a big Home Based MLM Business Opportunity event…and now you get even hotter. This is good.
Are you with me so far?
This is the exciting stage. You are on FIRE. You can’t get enough of your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity . It feels great to be alive! Your future is set. You have your solution…. Your new life. You are on your way!
WARNING: Here’s where most people take a GIANT WRONG TURN and many quit their Home Based MLM Business Opportunity and never see the future they just got hot and bothered dreaming about….
Phase Two:
(Successful Version)
Your Relationship.
The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion has transformed into a slow burn. There’s love and commitment there. You still want to be with them all the time, you can’t imagine your future without them, but the ups and downs have settled into a feeling of consistency…with passion, but in an easy and comfortable way…Life is good.
Your Business.
The super hot passion for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity has transformed into a slow burn. There’s love and commitment there. Your lows are high, your highs are low. You are consistent. You still see your future with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity, still passionate…. it just feels more settled and comfortable. Life is good.
OR
Phase Two:
(UNSuccessful Version)
Your Relationship. The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion has transformed into a slow burn. Fear and panic take over…where is the burning, smack-in-the-face passion? Where is that adrenaline? Why aren’t we having those 9 ½ Weeks scenes anymore? How do I get it back? You keep trying to get back something that’s not there anymore. Your commitment wanes. Without the heat, you lose interest and break up. Next.
Your Business.
The super-HOT, adrenaline-riddled passion for your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity has transformed into a slow burn. Fear and panic set in…where is the passion? Where is that adrenaline? Why am I not running to the mailbox to rip open my autoship with wild abandon anymore? How do I get it back? You read your training materials, have staring contests with your phone….all trying to get back something that’s not there anymore. Your commitment wanes. You tell yourself a lie (“This doesn’t work”) and you quit.
What’s my point?
It’s OKAY if your hot burning flaming passion turns into a slow, warm, comfortable burn. In fact, it’s normal. Stop chasing your tail trying to get back into the honeymoon and start accepting the deepened, long-term relationship with your awesome Home Based MLM Business Opportunity. Understand that THIS IS WHAT COMMITMENT FEELS LIKE. It’s a good thing.
Whether in relationships or in business, nobody can sustain that intense, adrenaline rush of the honeymoon phase. You aren’t meant to. In fact, it’s not healthy. It’s a sure-fire road to burn-out city.
A true professional has a real vision of living the long-term dream life that’s possible in your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity… That is, if you MADE A COMMITEMENT to it and vowed to persist until you succeed, and are willing to build it long and slow.
Get out of the “love ‘em and leave ‘em mentality and get in a healthy relationship for the long haul with your Home Based MLM Business Opportunity
You DESERVE Success!
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Can you have success with MLM if you’re always screwing up on the phone?
Absolutely! In fact, I’d say you’ll have more success in MLM if you’re constantly screwing up on the phone. Here’s why. YOU’RE ON THE PHONE! Being on the phone with prospects is how we make money in MLM. Actually, the two money-making actitivities for success with MLM are RETAILING and RECRUITING. As long as you’re on the phone doing one of those two things, you’re guaranteed success with MLM.
Now at this point, you may be thinking:
Yeah, Amy, but you said you’d have success with MLM if you’re SCREWING UP on the phone.
How is that possible?” Good question. I’ll tell you how. Actually, I’ll tell you what inspired this post. It was my prospect, Dr. Jekyll or was it Mr. Hyde!?
This morning, I rolled out of bed, sneezing and stuffy — head cold…and I looked at my clock and realized I had scheduled a follow up with a prospect. I had spoken to this gentleman 2 days prior. Someone I’d met at a networking function months ago.
Backtracking….Two days ago, I decided that if I truly wanted success with MLM, I’d better get out of my comfort zone and do something different. So I whipped out the enormous stack of business cards I’ve been accumulating from various functions and got to work calling. I had a great chat with this prospect, who was warm and kind, and extremely open to making extra money and totally intrigued by my primary network marketing company (Dr. Jekyll) and he agreed to watch a presentation! (FYI, this whole conversation was about 5ish minutes long. )
Well, when I picked up the phone to call him this morning at our schedule time, that warm, sweet lovely man (Dr. Jekyll) was replaced with a rushed , belligerent, unhappy man who absolulely challenged me at every turn (Mr. Hyde). He was argumentative, agressive and had attitude for days. A prospect monster!
Well now, I’ve sponsored plenty of people into my primary business over the past year and change, so I’m pretty comfortable dealing with all different types — even prospect monsters. But today, I was off my game. I was not well, I was tired, I was off guard and I screwed up this call. Needless to say, he did not sign up. LOL.
Why am I telling you this? Here’s why:
If you want success with MLM you must, must, must remember these 3 things:
If you’re getting a lot of prospect monsters (aka jerks) like this on the phone, congratulations…because it’s a numbers game and if you’re getting A LOT of jerks, then you are on the phone A LOT. Which means you’re getting a lot of jerks, a lot of uninterested nice people, and your share of open, interested people with whom you are creating relationships ….and you are sponsoring A LOT!…
You can’t say the wrong thing to the right person. Cedrick Harris taught me that when I first started. So true. No matter how much I screwed up my end of the conversation, if he wanted to come in the business, my screw up wouldn’t stop him.
Who cares! If you care, then you were too attached to your prospect and that means you don’t have enough leads and you are living in lack. Ray Higdon taught me that everyone who has success with MLM is either living in lack or abundance. If one idiot prospect sends you into a tail spin, you’re living in lack mentality. If you have the ability to shrug it off and move on, then you are living in abudance and you know that there’s millions of people out there waiting for you to call them with your opportunity. So…NEXT!
Why you should care about this:
I’m sharing this with you because I want you to recognize that even MLM Leaders screw up from time to time. We’re human. But we shrug it off, have a laugh and move on and that’s why we have success with MLM. If you have a sincere, burning desire for that success (you deserve it!), pick up that 800 pound phone often, and practice the art of the shrug off when you encounter a prospect monster, have a laugh and move on! Next!
You DESERVE Success!
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S T O P!
Don’t read this Network Marketing Blog!!!
It’s an absolute and total waste of your time. Really. I mean it. Stop reading right now…LOL. You’re still here. Okay, then I guess you deserve some sort of explanation for that rather bold statement.
Well here’s what I see a lot of when it comes to Network Marketing blogs. I see so many great marketers out there writing great, important information on their network marketing blogs like Ray Higdon, David Wood, Eric Worre , Jessica Peretti and so many others. I know people are commenting, sharing it on Facebook, Retweeting, Digging, Tumbling and Flickring til the cows come home and yet there’s still a whole lot of Network Marketers struggling. 
That kind of made me go “hmmm” ….
I mean, what is a great Network Marketing blog good for if all this awesome information is out there is being read but not used?
So, here’s what I think is going on. There’s a lot of what Jeffery Combs likes to call “getting ready to get ready” going on. Reading Network Marketing Blogs, watching Network Marketing training, listening to Network Marketing Audios, webinars, conference calls, script books, prospecting training…all this HOW TO stuff and no darn ACTION TAKING.
All the Network Marketing blogs, videos and training in the world won’t help you if you don’t pick up the phone and get to work! This is a phone business; there’s no way around that.
And you can use a Network Marketing blog, youtube channel or whatever content you like to try to hide behind but you won’t make any money.
And you DESERVE to make money in this awesome industry that gives you boundless opportunity and no glass ceiling on earning potential.
Now, I’m not saying these sites are not valuable. You might have noticed that I have a Network Marketing blog. There is value there. But you have to look at how much time you have to devote to your business every week. You have to understand that the majority of it better be retailing and recruiting time and then allot a reasonable percentage of it to personal development, training and marketing. … Retailing and recruiting (the only things that actually PAY you) come first.
So, make time for it, but in proportion to the time you have overall to work your business. And, for goodness sakes, if you’re gonna make time for only one Network Marketing blog a week, let it be this one! LOL.
Now get back to work!
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Energy Vampires. You know the type…you are trapped in a situation with them and you find all your energy draining slowly out of you? Energy Vampires, Negative Nellies — call them whatever you like. We all have them. Whether you like it or not you have them too. Maybe your boss is one. A co-worker. Perhaps your sister, your mother, your friend, you neighbor…whoever it is to you, they are there. You know the type, the complainers, the ones that always see the negative in EVERYTHING in life. They are, coincidentally, usually the dream-stealers too (but that’s the subject of another article . Oh yeah, here’s the most important quality they all share THEY’RE BROKE.
Well, if you are an Entrepreneur, you require effective leadership strategiesto assist you in your success and quest for wealth….and, sincy you have no intention of being BROKE, keep reading. You, my friend, are an out-of-the box thinker. You are light years away in mindset from your Negative Nellie. However you still have to exist in a world of Negative Nellies.
Since you are on an Entrepreneurial journey, chances are that you are working on your mindset and personal development daily (hint, hint). If so, you have some tools in your toolbox already!…Awesome! However, no matter how many tools are in there, when you are in the presence of Negative Nellie for extended periods of time, it can compromise your positive outlook and your energy – even your prosperity if you’re not careful!!
Here are some strategies to assist you in preventing yourself from being sucked into that negative vortex… 
1. Either eliminate these people from your life, or if you can’t do that, then shorten the amount of time you spend with them as much as possible. A statement of the obvious, but it had to be said.
2. Get an iPod. Seriously, not only can you load it up with personal development audiobooks, but whenever you require a boost back into positive energy land, excuse yourself and put your headphones on for 5, 10 or 15 minutes and re-brainwash yourself. It works.
3. Enlist a support buddy for help. Is there another family member or friend who’s with you all the time at these events in which you’re stuck with Negative Nellie? Someone who’s of a like mind? Stick with that person. Create counter strategies (see #4) and work with your buddy to counteract the negative comments. If your buddy is not with you, call or text them regularly with positive messages and affirmations.
4. Make a game of it. (Can be done with a buddy or solo). Every time you hear Negative Nellie make a complaint or negative comment, make a positive one. It doesn’t even have to be about the same subject.
What this does is two-fold. Number 1 it changes the tone of the conversation from negative to positive and Number 2 it forces you to find something joyful and positive to focus on. Remember what you focus on you draw to you. So, if you focus on Negative Nellie’s negativity, guess what you get more of? However, if you focus and comment on something positive, you will draw more of that to you. Bonus: If there are any others present, you are modeling awesome positive behavior. That’s powerful.
5. For couples: 
If you are surrounded by a Negative Nellie or two, you can take #4 to the next level. Try this. Every time Negative Nellie lodges a complaint or negative comment, show some sign of physical affection toward each other. This may sound crazy but it’s actually a blast, and a great way to counteract all that negativity. It actually makes it FUN.
Can you imagine looking forward to Negative Nellie drone on and on about why life sucks and you actually benefiting from it? Talk about making lemonade from lemons??!!!…Seriously, this is my favorite trick for passing the time when trapped with Negative Nellies. Try it!
I hope that assists you in your next family vacation, office party or wherever you are trapped with Negative Nellie the Energy Vampire again! If you find this helpful or fun, make sure to share it on Facebook and Retweet!
You DESERVE Success!
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Yes, I shamelessly exploited an adorable animal to get you to watch this video. I’ll admit it.
However, she is completely relevant to the message so I don’t feel the least bit guilty. One of my favorite mentors and someone who inspires me on a daily basis, Susan Sly, actually inspired it. So, it’s Susan’s fault
But seriously, there may be a cute puppy in the video, but the message is important. I love visuals. And Susan put this one in my head along with a powerful message that has greatly assisted me in increasing my value and getting my head in the right space to create a successful business. Enjoy!
You DESERVE Massive Success!
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I had the pleasure of hearing two phenomenal multi-millionaire speakers yesterday. One was a guest on my weekly webinar, Christina Dreiling, and one was a guest on Cedrick Harris’ weekly call, Jerry Clark. I can’t tell you how much value and inspiration I got from that. Simply priceless.
Not only hearing them speak, but back to back that way, I made an observation that gave me an AH-HA moment and wanted to share it.
Both of these guys are multi-millioniare success stories in Network Marketing. Both of them shared one key trait that struck me.
When they told their stories, they both shared about how they each had a crystal clear vision of what they wanted WAY before they actually achieved it.
But the thing that stayed with me was how SPECIFIC it was. It wasn’t just “I want to be successful” “I want to be financially free” “I want to be wealthy”…It was specific down to the ittty-bitty details of exactly what those statements looked like. It was so specific, it was as if they saw this vision in a catalog and merely ordered the product they saw in the picture, ya know?
That was one of my take-aways last night.
So, my question to you is:
HOW CLEAR IS YOUR VISION OF WHAT YOU WANT?
If your answer is vague, make today the day you start to create the details of YOUR PICTURE OF SUCCESS. Paint it in your mind so clearly that when you describe it to someone, you’ll feel like it’s right there in front of you…and perhaps, if you take CONSISTENT DAILY ACTION in your enterprise, YOU WILL HAVE IT!
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You DESERVE Massive Success!
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If you desire success in Network Marketing, then you’d better watch your mouth! …If you find yourself saying “I can’t afford it” and/or “I don’t have the money”, you are literally KILLING your business.
WORDS ARE POWERFUL. And by saying these kinds of things, you are actually drawing them to you. You are literally sucking yourself into a black hole of your own making. Mind-blowing really…especially if you’re new to this.
Watch this video ind out WHY these words are killing your chances for profit in your Network Marketing business and what to do to turn that around.
Enjoy!
You DESERVE Massive Success!
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If you’ve read anything on my blog, you know how important I feel that M I N D S E T is when it comes to success. Actually, I’d even venture so far as to say it’s the MOST important thing when it comes to success. Success in ANYTHING.
I always knew that, but last weekend I PROVED IT to myself ….and to everyone I had the privilege of being in the room with. AND, I got my proof on tape!
I had the most profound experience of the mountains I could move with my mind. Watch this…
You DESERVE Massive Success!
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If a multi-Millionaire took you under his wing and told you EXACTLY how to become a successful millionaire too, would you listen?
I hope you said, “YES, of course I would Amy!”
However, it’s been my experience that many Network Marketers who are struggling to achieve success still ask their also-struggling, broke friends and family for advice and guidance. Why would you seek the advice of someone who is less successful than you? Not only less successful, but someone who’s circle of influence also includes even more people who are living paycheck-to-paycheck and struggling to achieve success.
Doesn’t it just make sense to take your cue from someone who has what you want? Does an olympic hopeful take training advice from his kindergarten teacher? NO! They hire an Olympic Training Coach to advise and train them.
In this short video, Jeffery Combs, Millionaire success coach, tells it likes it is and gives you a simple tip to get you on the road to success. Why not listen?
You DESERVE Massive Success!
P.S. MASSIVE SUCCESS comes from MASSIVE ACTION. Take MASSIVE ACTION to achieve success with your network marketing business NOW!
I had one of the best days of my life today and I felt a passionate desire to share it with you.
If you desire MASSIVE SUCCESS in your MLM, you DESERVE to create a prosperity mindset and let go of the blocks that are holding you back. I am living PROOF that this works. Check out my story!
You DESERVE Massive Success!
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